Wednesday, October 22, 2008 @ 10:27 PM

Communication

Yael Naem- new soul


i'm a new soul, i came to this strange world

hoping i could learn a bit about how to give and take

but since i came here, felt the joy and the fear

finding myself making every possible mistake

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see, i'm a young soul in this very strange world

hoping i could learn a bit about what is true and fake

but why all this hate? try to communicate

finding trust and love is not always easy to make

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Lesson Learnt

Communication and understanding is quintessential in any forms of relationship. Communication being the bridge between perception and understanding. Without proper communication, what people perceive will be affected by assumptions made only second nature to any human being. Flaws in an equation of the works.

Henceforth, without a clear perception of things, misunderstanding arises inevitably leading to other complications(anger, disappointment, resentment, regret, hatred etc...) If communication is what relationships are build upon then a lack of communication is the weak foundation that can never provide enough stability for other 'structures' to be build upon. In this case being love, trust, faith, comfort, security and other luxuries of sort.

i'm still learning. i made a mistake of raising uncertainty and ambiguity in hopes of satisfying both parties. How foolish i was. i am sorry for the disappointment i caused in extinguishing the hopes that i have so cruelly, yet unknowingly, lit. and the grudge you must feel for having your efforts gone unappreciated. alas, i AM at fault.

i do SEE your effort. if i have not openly expressed my appreciation, it is because i am 'not proficient' at expressing such feelings(bluntly put). As you would already have known and experienced countless times, i am much more acquainted at projecting an aura of nonchalance which is so often misunderstood for non interest or ungratefulness. if for a second that you assumed i'm uninterested or ungrateful then i sincerely hope this would make things clearer. it hurts to be wrongly accused by others of being uninterested so i do want you to know that i am grateful and appreciative of what you have done. i will, in some way, make it up to you. i hope this clears things up a bit.